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The 15-Year Reality Check: Why Your Teen Is Actually Doing Amazing
The walk to daycare hit me with unexpected clarity. Fifteen years ago, I was in LA, working as an assistant principal, living what felt like a completely different life. And yet—fifteen years doesn't feel that long ago. It feels recent enough that I can still taste the coffee from my favorite café, still remember the weight of my keys in my hand, still feel like that person and this person are connected by something more than just time.
But here's what stopped me in my tracks: if fifteen years back doesn't feel like ancient history to me, then fifteen years forward from birth isn't that far either. That high schooler I worked with today? They're not that far from being brand new.
The Hardest Summer: Navigating Life with a 14-Year-Old
I know child development theory, I was a high school principal. But knowing why your 14-year-old acts like a different species every morning doesn't make living with them easier. This summer has been brutal: constant emotional regulation, being the "dumbest person alive" who apparently knows nothing about high school athletics (despite it being my job), and absorbing all the frustrations of a kid shedding their identity. My therapist reminded me this might be the one thing that isn't easy for me. The mom guilt is real when you know the science but still lose your patience. Sometimes admitting it sucks is the first step forward.

