Motherhood & Real-Life Leadership

What high school athletes and busy moms can learn from Atomic Habits and the POW survival mindset: focus on small, daily wins—not distant milestones—to build resilience, confidence, and lasting change.

We swore we’d never make another chart — especially not for a fourteen-year-old. But when parenting started to feel like Groundhog Day, we realized our child didn’t need more consequences. He needed structure designed for an ADHD brain. This is how we built a system that transferred ownership, reduced daily conflict, and helped our family reset without shame.

Parenting a neurodivergent teen can feel like starting over every single day — sometimes every hour. When impulsive decisions pile up and your child seems unaware of how their behavior affects others, the mental load on caregivers becomes overwhelming. This GRL Initiative pep talk offers a compassionate, research-informed reminder that spirals aren’t failures — they’re moments that require support, structure, and grace for both the child and the adult walking beside them.

Some days it feels impossible to be both the parent holding everything together at home and the leader expected to show up confidently at work. When parenting feels heavy, self-doubt can spill into every part of life — even the places that once brought joy. This honest reflection explores what happens when our inner critic takes over, and how small shifts in self-talk, grace, and persistence help us keep moving forward — even when we’re exhausted.

Watching Little Giants with my son reminded me of something sports movies have always gotten right: belonging comes before success. From The Sandlot to Remember the Titans, these stories resonate because most of us have felt like outsiders at some point — and finding a place where we belong changes everything.

When you’re struggling, it’s rarely just one thing. Hormone shifts from perimenopause, parenting a teenager, and a world that feels heavy can collide all at once—leaving even the most capable people depleted. This honest, grounded post explores what to do when you’re doing “all the right things” and still feel overwhelmed, offering practical ways to regulate your nervous system, lower the pressure, and remember you’re not broken—you’re human.

The pink tax is real — and it teaches girls early lessons about worth, fairness, and belonging. Here’s how it shows up in sports, school, and leadership.

What happens when athletic administrators are asked about belonging, burnout, and safety instead of strategy? Insights from the National Athletic Directors Conference reveal what leaders are really carrying.

Every mom has a kid wearing something wild under the perfect outfit. Mine? Two pairs of underwear. This is the messy, funny, unseen side of motherhood we need to talk about more — from hidden struggles to the pressure to look like we have it together.

December isn’t a break for working moms—it’s a logistical marathon built on emotional labor, travel schedules, school events, and making holiday magic. Here’s your permission to slow down, recalibrate, and keep your sh*t together in the most honest way possible.

Five years after living through the pandemic together, many couples are realizing that connection hasn’t gotten easier—life has only gotten louder. In this reflective, honest look at partnership, I explore what it actually takes to stay connected when you’re tired, stretched thin, and operating at different speeds. From tiny daily rituals to shared moments, nervous-system-friendly activities, and naming what we miss, this is the real roadmap to choosing each other—long after survival mode ends.

Choosing a sport with your daughter shouldn’t be stressful. This GRL Initiative guide helps families explore interests, match personality types, and find activities that build confidence and joy.

Nerves don’t mean you’re not ready. Learn the GRL 5-minute hype warm-up — a simple routine to steady your mind, harness adrenaline, and show up with confidence.

Your daughter doesn’t need to fit into a sport — the sport should fit her. Here’s how to choose a youth program based on personality, pressure, preferences, and joy.

Parents have choices when it comes to youth sports, but how do you know if a program is truly right for your child? This guide offers a clear, research-informed checklist to assess belonging, coaching, playing time, communication, and overall culture—so you can choose a space where your child feels safe, supported, and excited to grow.

Strong teams aren’t built during conflict—they’re built during the calm moments. This post helps student-athletes understand what makes a high-functioning team work, what strengths to notice, and how to protect positive team culture before drama shows up.

Strong teams aren’t built during conflict—they’re built during the calm moments. This post helps student-athletes understand what to notice, what to protect, and how to lead when their team is functioning well, so they’re better prepared for the hard moments later.

Team drama can make practices tense, games stressful, and the whole season feel heavier than it should. This post breaks down what drama does to a team, why it feels so overwhelming, and how you can navigate it with confidence, clarity, and leadership—without getting pulled into the chaos.

A student-athlete stopped me during the football championship medal line to say my talk inspired him — and it reminded me of something big: moments like that only happen because you start. You start before you feel ready, before anyone is watching, before you stop caring what people think. This blog is about the courage to begin, the consistency to keep going, and why small moments of impact make every bit of the work worth it.

Reconnection doesn’t happen all at once — it happens in small, quiet moments layered over time. From eye contact to curiosity, repair to ritual, these simple daily practices rebuild the trust and belonging that disconnection slowly erodes. This is how we start bringing the flavor back

Connection is what makes everything work — our families, our friendships, our leadership. It’s the tissue that holds us together in calm and in conflict. When we take time to really see and listen to one another, we build belonging that lasts long after the moment ends. This is the story of why connection is the foundation of every kind of strength.

Burnout rarely shows up all at once—it leaks in slowly. In this practical GRL Initiative guide, Dr. Lauren Young shares her personal Burnout Watch List: the emotional, physical, and mental warning signs that tell you you’re running on empty. Learn how to recognize the drift, reset your energy, and protect yourself before you crash. This isn’t about weakness—it’s about awareness.

We tell ourselves we’ll rest later — after the next project, the next busy season, the next “once things calm down.” But sometimes later never comes. In this powerful reflection, Dr. Lauren Young shares what she learned from a dear friend and colleague whose plans for “someday” were cut short. This essay is a reminder that leadership isn’t about constant motion — it’s about knowing when to stop, breathe, and live your life while you still can.

If you’ve ever felt anxious about taking a day off—worried about the inbox, the calls, the people who “never stop”—this one’s for you. In this post, Dr. Lauren Young opens up about learning to rest in a culture that rewards overwork. With research on burnout, recovery, and dopamine, she reframes rest as a leadership skill, not a luxury. Because the truth is, your team can rehire your role—but your family can’t replace you.

Rest doesn’t just happen—it’s designed. In this GRL Initiative deep dive, Dr. Lauren Young shares how to build a healing day that actually restores your energy instead of adding more decisions to your to-do list. Learn how to communicate your needs clearly, set boundaries that stick, and create your own “dopamine menu” so you always know what brings you peace and joy. This is your guide to resting on purpose—without guilt.