GRL Pep Talks: Real Conversations for Real Growth
Your go-to space for leadership, confidence, identity, team culture, and the everyday challenges young women and student-athletes navigate.
GRL Pep Talks is where honest conversations meet practical support. Whether you’re a student-athlete, a young woman finding your voice, or someone building confidence and belonging, these Pep Talks are designed to help you grow in ways that actually fit your life.
You’ll find stories, worksheets, research-backed tools, and quiet reminders that you’re not alone in what you’re navigating. This is your space for clarity, connection, and the kind of leadership that starts from within — on and off the field.
Two Pairs of Underwear and Other Things Moms Pretend Aren’t Happening
Every mom has a kid wearing something wild under the perfect outfit. Mine? Two pairs of underwear. This is the messy, funny, unseen side of motherhood we need to talk about more — from hidden struggles to the pressure to look like we have it together.
HOW TO KEEP YOUR SH*T TOGETHER AS A WORKING MOM DURING THE HOLIDAYS
December isn’t a break for working moms—it’s a logistical marathon built on emotional labor, travel schedules, school events, and making holiday magic. Here’s your permission to slow down, recalibrate, and keep your sh*t together in the most honest way possible.
The Most Wonderful… Overwhelming… Magical… Exhausting Time of Year
When College Athletics Ends: The Quiet Identity Shift No One Really Prepares You For
When college athletics ends, the loss isn’t just the game — it’s the structure, identity, and belonging that once held everything together. This reflection explores what really happens after sport, why the transition feels so destabilizing, and how former athletes can begin rebuilding connection and meaning in their next chapter.
Sports Suggestions & Recommendations for Girls (By Age & Personality)
A practical, confidence-centered guide to sports suggestions and recommendations for girls—based on personality, age, and belonging, not pressure.
When Rest Looks Nothing Like Rest: A Working Mom’s Reflection on Overwhelm, Purpose, and the Truth About “Doing It All”
How Couples Actually Build Connection
Five years after living through the pandemic together, many couples are realizing that connection hasn’t gotten easier—life has only gotten louder. In this reflective, honest look at partnership, I explore what it actually takes to stay connected when you’re tired, stretched thin, and operating at different speeds. From tiny daily rituals to shared moments, nervous-system-friendly activities, and naming what we miss, this is the real roadmap to choosing each other—long after survival mode ends.
The Ultimate Eco-Conscious & Outdoorsy Gift Guide (From Someone Who Just Cleaned Out Her Closet)
Cleaning out my closet reminded me how much we’re surrounded by excess—and how many gifts end up forgotten instead of loved. As someone who prefers adventure over clutter, I created this intentional gift guide for outdoorsy and eco-conscious people. From experience-based ideas to local gems, campfire kits, pet-friendly gear, and “pay it forward” giving, here’s how to choose gifts that truly see the person you love.
FINDING BELONGING WHEN YOU’RE THE MINORITY
Belonging becomes more complex when you’re the minority in the room. This article explores why fitting in feels exhausting, why belonging shifts with identity, and how adults—especially women in leadership—can create spaces where they can breathe, show up authentically, and feel understood.
Why Belonging Matters More Than Skill in Youth Sports
Belonging—not talent—is the real engine of youth sports. Research from Project Play, the Women’s Sports Foundation, and the CDC shows that girls stay in sports when they feel connected, supported, and socially safe. Skill matters, but belonging matters more. This GRL Initiative guide explains why, and how parents and coaches can build teams where girls thrive.
What Coaches Need to Know About Playing Kids Up
Playing kids up isn’t always the advantage it appears to be. Research from Project Play, the Developmental Model of Sport Participation, and the Women’s Sports Foundation shows that social belonging, emotional readiness, and age-appropriate challenge matter more than talent alone. This guide outlines what coaches need to know before moving an athlete to an older team—and how to create an environment that protects confidence, safety, and long-term development.
Why Kids Quit Sports: The Big 7 Reasons (and How to Prevent It)
Kids don’t quit sports because they’re soft — they quit because the environment stops serving them. Research from Project Play, JAMA Pediatrics, and the Women’s Sports Foundation shows the top reasons kids, especially girls, walk away from sports: loss of belonging, stress, harsh coaching, burnout, comparison, and decreased confidence. This guide breaks down the seven biggest reasons and offers solutions to help kids stay confident, connected, and excited to play.
When Your Child Plays Up: How to Support Them Emotionally & Socially
If your child was moved up to an older team and is struggling with confidence, belonging, or playing time, you’re not alone. Many girls experience stress, identity shifts, and a loss of joy when playing up. This research-backed guide helps parents support their child emotionally, socially, and developmentally—while protecting long-term confidence and love for the game.
Is Your Child Ready to Play Up? A Research-Backed Checklist for Parents
Should Kids Play Up? What Happens When Children Move to Older Teams
When kids are moved up to older teams too soon, their confidence, development, and sense of belonging can take a hit. Research shows this is one of the biggest reasons kids quit sports. Here’s what families need to know before saying yes to “playing up.”
It’s My Birthday — And Here’s the Truth About Why This One Feels Different
This birthday feels different. At 42, I’ve spent a year doing the hard internal work — exploring my identity, redefining connections, setting boundaries, and beginning the long journey toward true belonging. I’m not there yet, but I’m growing, stretching, and becoming in ways I’m finally proud of.
How to Pick a Sport With Your Daughter
Choosing a sport with your daughter shouldn’t be stressful. This GRL Initiative guide helps families explore interests, match personality types, and find activities that build confidence and joy.
The Hype Warm-Up: A 5-Minute Routine for Your Mind Before a Game
Nerves don’t mean you’re not ready. Learn the GRL 5-minute hype warm-up — a simple routine to steady your mind, harness adrenaline, and show up with confidence.
How to Help Choose a Youth Program Based on Your Daughter’s Personality Type
Your daughter doesn’t need to fit into a sport — the sport should fit her. Here’s how to choose a youth program based on personality, pressure, preferences, and joy.
When the Pep Talk Isn’t Enough
Sometimes the pep talk isn’t enough — not because you failed, but because you’re overloaded. Learn how to shrink your world, find the root cause, and take the next step forward.