GRL Pep Talks: Real Conversations for Real Growth
Your go-to space for leadership, confidence, identity, team culture, and the everyday challenges young women and student-athletes navigate.
GRL Pep Talks is where honest conversations meet practical support. Whether you’re a student-athlete, a young woman finding your voice, or someone building confidence and belonging, these Pep Talks are designed to help you grow in ways that actually fit your life.
You’ll find stories, worksheets, research-backed tools, and quiet reminders that you’re not alone in what you’re navigating. This is your space for clarity, connection, and the kind of leadership that starts from within — on and off the field.
The Power of Connection
Connection is what makes everything work — our families, our friendships, our leadership. It’s the tissue that holds us together in calm and in conflict. When we take time to really see and listen to one another, we build belonging that lasts long after the moment ends. This is the story of why connection is the foundation of every kind of strength.
The Science of Connection
After realizing connection was the missing ingredient in my life, I went searching for answers. The research is clear — belonging and connection are not nice-to-haves; they’re biological necessities. From Harvard’s 80-year happiness study to the U.S. Surgeon General’s warning about loneliness, science proves that real connection keeps us healthier, happier, and more alive.
Connection: The missing Ingredient
Something was off. Life looked full — work, family, even laughter — but it all felt strangely bland. The missing ingredient wasn’t love or time. It was connection. When everything becomes a task and no one really sees each other, belonging fades. This is the story of realizing that connection is the salt that brings life back to the table.
The Burnout Watch List
Burnout rarely shows up all at once—it leaks in slowly. In this practical GRL Initiative guide, Dr. Lauren Young shares her personal Burnout Watch List: the emotional, physical, and mental warning signs that tell you you’re running on empty. Learn how to recognize the drift, reset your energy, and protect yourself before you crash. This isn’t about weakness—it’s about awareness.
Building a Life That Doesn’t Burn Out
What if the goal isn’t to recover from burnout — but to build a life that doesn’t cause it in the first place? In this closing post from her Healing Day Series, Dr. Lauren Young explores the idea of planning for your cadence: knowing when to push, when to pause, and how to create systems that sustain both your work and your well-being. This is a practical guide to building a life that lasts — one that includes recovery, rhythm, and room to breathe.
The Cost of Constant: What We Lose When We Never Stop
We tell ourselves we’ll rest later — after the next project, the next busy season, the next “once things calm down.” But sometimes later never comes. In this powerful reflection, Dr. Lauren Young shares what she learned from a dear friend and colleague whose plans for “someday” were cut short. This essay is a reminder that leadership isn’t about constant motion — it’s about knowing when to stop, breathe, and live your life while you still can.
When Rest Feels Wrong: Learning to Step Away Without the Guilt
If you’ve ever felt anxious about taking a day off—worried about the inbox, the calls, the people who “never stop”—this one’s for you. In this post, Dr. Lauren Young opens up about learning to rest in a culture that rewards overwork. With research on burnout, recovery, and dopamine, she reframes rest as a leadership skill, not a luxury. Because the truth is, your team can rehire your role—but your family can’t replace you.
Designing your Healing Day(s)
Rest doesn’t just happen—it’s designed. In this GRL Initiative deep dive, Dr. Lauren Young shares how to build a healing day that actually restores your energy instead of adding more decisions to your to-do list. Learn how to communicate your needs clearly, set boundaries that stick, and create your own “dopamine menu” so you always know what brings you peace and joy. This is your guide to resting on purpose—without guilt.
The Cadence of Work: Why Leaders Need “Healing Days”
Leadership isn’t just about how hard you can go—it’s about how well you can recover. In this essay, Dr. Lauren Young reflects on the quiet crash that follows high-cadence seasons, when your brain is still buzzing with logistics and your body is begging for rest. Backed by research on burnout and recovery, she explores why “healing days” aren’t a luxury but a necessity. This post reminds ambitious women that rest is not something to earn after you’ve finished leading—it’s what makes powerful, sustainable leadership possible.
The Village That Doesn’t Shows Up
The village used to be built in. Now, it feels like it disappeared. But maybe it’s not gone—it’s just waiting for us to rebuild it. Time is moving fast. Let’s show up for one another again.
The Myth of Catching Up
We spend our lives trying to “catch up,” but maybe there’s no such thing. The to-do list never ends, and that’s okay. The middle isn’t a waiting room—it’s the work.
The work from home trade off
We were promised freedom, but sometimes working from home just means being the default for everything—appointments, laundry, the dogs, the dishes. The lines blur. The cocoon closes in. So maybe what we really need isn’t another productivity hack—but each other. Introducing the Burlington Work-From-Home Women’s Meetup. Because working from home doesn’t have to mean working alone
And… I’m Not Going to Feel Guilty
We carry so much — work, family, invisible labor — and then feel guilty when we say no, rest, or ask for help. This is your reminder that protecting your peace isn’t selfish. It’s leadership. And… you’re not going to feel guilty.
Learning to Belong in All Three Spaces
Some days it feels like I’m living three different lives—State Executive Director Lauren, Midwestern Mom Lauren, and Just-Me Lauren, who’s always last on the calendar. Between leadership meetings and loading the dishwasher, I’m learning that belonging isn’t about balance—it’s about being honest with yourself in all three spaces. Here’s what it looks like to show up as all of you, even when it’s messy.
Keeping Your Boundary (Even When You Feel Guilty)
The hardest part of boundaries isn’t saying no—it’s not apologizing afterward. Here’s how to keep your peace without guilt or over-explaining.
Boundaries Keep You Intellectually Safe
Strong boundaries aren’t just emotional—they’re intellectual armor. Explore how clarity in your digital and professional life keeps you safe from predatory behavior.
When Someone Ignores Your Boundary
When someone tests your boundary, it’s not confusion—it’s data. Here’s how to respond with clarity instead of guilt, and protect your peace like a pro.
How to Set a Boundary Without Feeling Like the Villain
If you’ve ever said yes just to keep the peace, this one’s for you. Learn the GRL 3-step formula for setting boundaries that feel authentic—not awkward.
What a Boundary Actually Is (and What It Isn’t)
You’ve heard the word boundaries a thousand times, but what does it actually mean? Let’s unpack why they’re not about exclusion—they’re about self-respect.
Gen Z with a Cold: Why Rest Is a Leadership Skill
Feeling guilty for resting? Here’s how pausing, delegating, and resetting actually makes you a stronger leader.